Situations continue to resurface until the lesson is learned. Learning how not to overreact is one of those lessons I believe we continuously learn.
Respect + Asking Question + Seeking Correction = Not Overacting
Lack of Respect + Assuming the Worse + Seeking Crucifixion = Overacting
A Proportional Response…And Other Lessons Learned from TV
Do you remember the first time you touched something hot and it burned your hand? You were more cautious the next time you approached the stove. Do you remember the first time you disobeyed your parents and got grounded? You paid attention the time and got home before curfew. What about the first disappointment or heartache? You remained guarded a little bit longer before you allowed yourself to be vulnerable.
Wisdom seldom comes from pleasant experiences. It often comes from a source of pain or hardship. The tactic to survive what you once thought was so debilitating is to apply that wisdom to future circumstances so that you can make better decisions and share that wisdom with others. Your “little birdie” is strengthened with each experience and has an amazing memory. Are you trusting it and applying your wisdom to help you navigate the inevitable pitfuls you will face during your journey?